THE SEVENTH GATE

10 Aug

Hey.

I never really posted about my personal life in detail, but I’m here to communicate after almost years of silence that the person you could imagine I am or was from the kind of content I used to post at my blog no longer exists.

Yes, I still enjoy dark beauty, yes, I still love the mystery of the unknown and the magnetic power of attraction of the inner beast we all have inside which shows in our darkest hours.

However, these last years I’ve learned a lot about myself and I’ve come to find out that I’m not only darkness but way much more than that: I am a human being with a purpose and my goal in life is to grow, experiment, learn and the most important of all, be happy. Because yeah, that’s the point. I deserve to be happy. You deserve to be happy. You are important. You are worth it. But you gotta work for it. If you struggle with depression, self-destructive behavior or other emotional issues it’s gonna be a long hard road out of Hell, but believe me, it’s totally worth it.

As some sort of advice, I’ll say that beyond finding a high remarkable purpose for your life, start with the only true important purpose that matters to reach any other: loving yourself. Take care of yourself in body and mind, be aware of how the world really works and how it will try to manipulate you and destroy you, and use it to empower yourself. It doesn’t matter if you can’t reach the top at first, cause once you’ve beaten the urge to sabotage yourself you’ll feel unstoppable. And from what I can tell, that’s one of the most beautiful feelings you can ever experience, to be in control of your own self.

Lastly, surround yourself with people that actually love you. Not that pretend they do. In a healthy, respectful and trustworthy way. Many people will come to you claiming they love you, but if they keep hurting you in some way (intentionally or not), won’t allow you to grow or to progress, be sensible and consequent enough to assume it’s not what you deserve and you must let them go.

I’m making this post because it has came across my mind to be back here, since it was a huge artistic inspiration and I have the time right now. If that happens keep in mind that I’ve changed, therefore, the content will change too. Be aware of that all of those followers who have been tracking my content since I started. To you thanks for being part of the journey. Where I’m most active now is at Instagram, and I’m still trying to figure out how Snapchat works.

Thanks for being there!

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1 Oct

tennants-hair:

pros of having unnaturally colored hair
no more bad hair days
you don’t have to dye it every 2 weeks who cares if the roots show no one thought your hair was naturally purple anyway
small children being completely fascinated and asking to pet your hair
old people on the bus staring like you’re satan incarnate
punks on the bus giving you approving looks
you can match your hair to your outfit
also your nail polish
just
punk rock man
cons of having unnaturally colored hair
literally none
just dye your hair green already you know you want to

“”“"Pros”“”“

- No more bad hair days my ass: Wearing a cool color doesn’t mean no more bad hair days; it probably means more bad hair days. You’re really fucking lucky if the bleaching process doesn’t damage your hair to make it look like a dry atrocity. Yes. A more fashionable dry atrocity because it’s pink but still a dry atrocity.

- You don’t have to dye it every 2 weeks my ass too: an alternative/crazy/fantasy color doesn’t stay in your hair for two weeks no matter how much you shut your eyes and focus on it. Even if you treat it with expensive products that are supposed to make the color last longer, pink, lavender, blue, grey, blue or whatever the fucking color is won’t hold two fucking weeks in your hair. Not even in dreams. So if you’re just careless enough to walk around with filthy roots, I guess you are for going from the hair category of “beautiful mermaid” to “buoy” too.

- Fascinated kids. Really? Why the fuck would I enjoy being surrounded by kids messing up with my hair?

- Punks on the bus giving you approving looks my fucking ass again: I’m not gonna like you more just because you’re wearing your hair unnaturally colored. Am I supposed to feel impressed about your bravery or something? Because nowadays it’s not brave, not even original. Every average tumblr/instagram/pinterest teen wears her hair unnaturally colored. You’re not gonna get my approval just for wearing your hair green. It doesn’t make you special or different anymore.

- You can match your hair to your outfit HAHAno. Unless all your clothes are black say hasta la vista to all of your clothing. You’ll never find in your wardrobe anything that combines perfectly with the hair tone you’re wearing (mainly because IT FADES). And if you find it, congratulations, you now just have to put some purple paint in your cheeks and you’ll look like the fucking hideous blueberry-girl from the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory movie.

- Punk rock man: yes. Without any doubt dyeing your hair using a crazy color turns you into the most badass, cool, alternative person. Because NOBODY ELSE IS DOING IT.

Cons

- Literally none kiss my ass. Brace yourself for having your hair dry as fuck and spending a shitload of money in products that “repair” your damaged hair (in most of cases they offer a temporal solution: they make your hair look healthier and nicer but they can’t make it come back from the dead, so in a few days your hair will still be dry as fuck and looking like shit). Brace yourself too for forgetting about your hair growing at a regular/high speed: thanks to the chemicals you’ll have to be thankful if it grows at least one inch in year and a half. Unless your hair is a natural platinum blonde, you have no other choice but damaging your hair using the bleaching process for making the color look bright and nice in your hair (unless you have a rindonkulous amount of money to buy tons of Olaplex, which can protect your hair but it’s still not miraculous).

- Just dye your hair green already you know you fucking want to. Of course I want to. Wearing your hair green is super fun and looks awesome. I’ve wore in my hair all the possible unnatural colors. But don’t fucking bring up this idea as only fun and games with no negative consequences, just the same way you pretend me to believe alternative social media godesses only feed from cupcakes and pizza.

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24 Aug

"What if all women were bigger and stronger than you? And thought they were smarter? What if women were the ones who started wars? What if too many of your friends had been raped by women wielding giant dildos and no K-Y Jelly? What if the state trooper who pulled you over on the New Jersey Turnpike was a woman and carried a gun? What if the ability to menstruate was the prerequisite for most high-paying jobs? What if your attractiveness to women depended on the size of your penis? What if every time women saw you they’d hoot and make jerking motions with their hands? What if women were always making jokes about how ugly penises are and how bad sperm tastes? What if you had to explain what’s wrong with your car to big sweaty women with greasy hands who stared at your crotch in a garage where you are surrounded by posters of naked men with hard-ons? What if men’s magazines featured cover photos of 14-year-old boys with socks tucked into the front of their jeans and articles like: “How to tell if your wife is unfaithful” or “What your doctor won’t tell you about your prostate” or “The truth about impotence”? What if the doctor who examined your prostate was a woman and called you “Honey”? What if you had to inhale your boss’ stale cigar breath as she insisted that sleeping with her was part of the job? What if you couldn’t get away because the company dress code required you wear shoes designed to keep you from running? And what if after all that women still wanted you to love them?"

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For The Men Who Still Don’t Get It, Carol Diehl (via oitheresawargoingonhere)

Reblogging again because I just really like it.

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